Hello Fellow Sage!

Vulnerability—this powerful emotion sat deep within me as I drove to Miami for the second alumni event for Cathy Madeo yoga graduates. As I navigated through my thoughts, I felt a blend of excitement and discomfort. The question lingered: was I truly part of this community, or was I simply hovering on the periphery?

As a collective, we all shared a common connection with Cathy, our teacher. Many of us had attended the event last year, and a smaller group formed what felt like an inner circle. The only person I somewhat knew was Tammi; we completed our 200-hour training together in the spring of 2023.

When I arrived at South Pointe Park that Saturday afternoon, I knew the group was already deep into their content creation. I spotted them from a distance as I paid for parking, and for a fleeting moment, I considered leaving. Checking into my hotel and joining them later seemed easier. The thought crossed my mind: “I’m late, and $20 for parking—do I really belong here?”

A year ago, I would have left, no question. The voice inside me would have whispered, “You’re not really part of this group. Why force it?” But this year felt different. I knew the old pattern of avoiding discomfort wasn’t serving my growth. The Vibrant Sage within me has learned that these moments are the very opportunities for self-discovery—times when I must go inward, recognize my fear, and move forward regardless.

Yoga teaches us that it’s not just about the beautiful postures and movement. It’s also about the deeper work, the yamas and niyamas, the principles that guide us beyond the mat. For me, this moment was a practice in Svadhyaya, or self-study. It was a moment to confront that fear of disconnection, to observe it, and to make a different choice—a choice that aligned with the wisdom I seek to cultivate as a Vibrant Sage.

Research by Brené Brown shows us that vulnerability is the gateway to connection. It’s uncomfortable and sometimes even painful, but it’s also necessary for genuine relationships and personal growth. When we allow ourselves to be seen, even when we have no guarantee of the outcome, we open the door to authentic experiences and true community.

Science supports this concept: individuals who lean into vulnerability and take risks in social situations often form deeper, more supportive relationships. This openness strengthens our sense of belonging, a core aspect of what it means to live vibrantly. The fear of disconnection can keep us isolated, holding us back in our comfort zones. But when we embrace discomfort, we begin to understand ourselves better and create the space for meaningful connections to form.

This aligns perfectly with the journey of The Vibrant Sage. By knowing ourselves—our fears and vulnerabilities—we can choose to act differently, moving beyond old patterns and embracing new possibilities.

As I walked toward the group, I felt the sky darken and clouds roll in. Cathy was taking photos, and I waited for the right moment to approach. As she greeted me with a warm hug, I felt a sense of relief. The group radiated connection, inspiration, and support, and I felt the pull to be part of it.

Then, the rain began to pour. In seconds, the sky opened up, and we all scrambled to gather our belongings. My car was parked nearby, but I hesitated. Should I offer the group a ride, or should I remain quiet, playing small and safe?

At that moment, I chose to move forward. I offered my car as shelter, and the group gratefully joined me, relieved to escape the downpour. We drove to the hotel, soaked but laughing, and I realized that this small act was a pivotal moment. By stepping out of my comfort zone, I not only embraced the community but also deepened my own connection to my inner Vibrant Sage—the part of me that knows the way forward is often through discomfort.

Reflect on your own experiences. Have there been moments where you felt the fear of disconnection and retreated to your comfort zone? What if, instead, you leaned into that discomfort and allowed yourself to be vulnerable?

As a Vibrant Sage, you have the wisdom within to recognize these moments. Use them as opportunities to grow, to connect, and to move forward. The path to living vibrantly isn’t always easy, but it’s in those moments of discomfort that we find our true strength and the depth of our connections.

Next time you find yourself at a crossroads—unsure whether to step forward or retreat—remember that your inner wisdom is guiding you to embrace the challenge. Move forward with courage, knowing that in the vulnerability lies the chance for authentic connection and growth.